I think I stumbled across a really good idea in my rambling. Ask her to the take the MSF course with you. Tell her, “I don’t think you are making an informed decision, just do me a favor and take the MSF course with me before you put your foot down on the motorcycles.”
That’s just my 2cents, it might work, it might not. I’m no relationship doctor!
~Best Beginner Motorcycles Admin