Reply To: It’s not !@#$% if, it’s !@#$% when.
September 18, 2009 at 2:13 am
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owlie
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That has been pretty much my husband’s comment each time I come back to the house after one of my misadventures. Having his support has made a huge difference in dealing with it.
Don’t spend your time beating yourself up about it. After you let it go, maybe you’ll figure out what really happened. I call it the shower effect… You always figure out things out in the shower when your mind isn’t focused on it.