aww man i’m so lucky my girl doesnt mind me riding. Its probably due to the fact that her dad has an interest in bikes so I suppose shes used to it by now.
But most women hold double standards. They want you to support them in whatever they do, but sometimes its hard to get the same support returned. I can understand her not wanting you to ride it because its “un-safe”, but she should still support the things you wan to do and are passionate about. I think you just need to sit down with her and talk to her about it. Find out her specific reasons for not wanting you to ride and try your best to clear up any doubts or questions that she has. Her fear might just be from ignorance about the culture. I dunno if that helps or not, but it just a suggestion.